do we know?

Assalamualaikum.

aku sebenarnya sedang upset berikutan suatu peristiwa yang i can say that happen around me. frankly speaking. it was NOT AN IMPORTANT THING to be blog about here pun! that is why I'm upset. kenapa manusia suka sangat membesar besarkan masalah nya? does it lighten you up? does it makes your problem solved by itself? dont you think lama kelamaan you’re just exaggerating things? untuk upset di atas perkara ini juga tidak penting untuk aku. I'm just upset that why do people don't see the bigger picture here?

contohlah aku bagi supaya kamu senang paham. based on true story. i am a NEW officer at work. my work related to public services. kalau kau rasa aku kerja kerajaan dari jam lapan sampai lima, isnin sampai jumaat, then you are wrong! “i work 24 hours a day and no leave for the year” in a way-lah tapi. my responsible are big. i cannot afford to be casual regarding my work. people could die. this is true story, not a fiction. jadi kadang kadang aku stress. but its funny to me, when people look down at us (the govn servant). okeh nampak sangat aku macam holding a grudge. HAHAHA. lets make this general so that semua orang boleh apply to their own stories. some people thought that they have a way better and more important job to be stressed about everyday single day of their life (exaggerating lah you ona!) padahal ada seja orang lain yang punya kerja yang lebih important tapi orang itu just keep it cool and never whine about it. ouch. i feel ashamed. aku selalu merungut pasal kerja. kerja aku bukanlah penting sangat pun terhadap kesejahteraan masyarakat =p

now, Ona. is it important to whine? you know there is more about life to be think about. you have experienced it first hand. so think harder before you whine again.

contoh lain lagi. when you’ve been misunderstood. misinterpreted. ndak kisah lah apa storyline nya. it could be in your working place. aku rasa aku banyak kena neh di office. being a boss in a young age and get to lead a group of staffs twice your age, of course it cost you all kinds of cakap belakang. di mana mana pun ada benda ini lah. among friends. among families. ada kan? so what do you do? do you defend yourself every single time it comes to your face? do you stood out in the crowd semata mata mau menegakkan kebenaran?

now, everybody yang pernah merasa ini. is it important to fight back and stood up for yourself? or to be bothered because of what other’s think about you? is it important for you to even think about what other people think about you? least important? maybe. not important? yes. you knew better.

so i’m asking you again. Do we know what is important in life? i mean like, do we really really know? can we be able to differentiate what's important and what's not or what's least? can we? untuk seseorang itu benar benar mengenali dan memahami perbezaan di antara ketiga tiga perkara di atas adalah suatu ilmu yang sangat sangat jarang ramai orang tahu. including myself. jadi, sebelum kita menjadikan sesuatu yang kecil itu besar, we look around. of course we cant always have what we want. but we sure do have what we need. so there is no need to be angry at the world! teehee.

a bigger example.

berapa ramai orang yang kumpul duit semata-mata untuk tanggung haji dan umrah untuk kedua orang tuanya? berapa ramai pula ibu bapa yang plan untuk bawa familynya melawat Mekah atau Madinah sebagai percutian keluarganya masa cuti sekolah? berapa ramai yang berbelanja kurang setiap bulan untuk benda ini?

i buy new shoes and bags almost every months instead T_T

berapa ramai pula ibu bapanya yang concern dengan asas agama anak-anaknya dari kecil? semua sibuk mau cater the best for their children. mahu hantar anak masuk preschool supaya umur lima tahun sudah pandai mengenal huruf dan membaca. mahu hantar anak ikut kelas muzik, belajar piano, violin segala sebab budak budak yang belajar muzik tend to have better IQ. berapa ramai pula yang mahu anaknya pandai mengenal huruf jawi dulu? atau tahu mengaji dulu dari umurnya lima tahun?

do you think that we really really know what’s important or what’s not in life?

oklah. bai. kami ada jamuan makan neh. dan makan itu penting. HAHAHA.